Absolute Certainty

Is the idea of recession real or imaginary? What creates a recession anyway? Is it because many people begin to believe it then start to hold on to their money and the fear causes us to stop moving forward. Does our experience really create the recession or is it our fear which causes us to freeze our possibilities and then like a virus, we pass it on to other beings causing a recession. Where did it start? Didn't it really start in our minds?

Today, I was trying a new affirmation on and see if I can change my reality about my weight. I came upon a feeling of ' I have to see it to believe it'. Wow, that was scary. According to the laws of the universe, I really had to believe it before I would experience it.

So, here we are, going along our merry way, and now we want to make a change. Where do we start? How do we create that new experience and let the old one go? How do we stop believing something and start believing with absolute certainty something new to bring it to a real experience?

This is where the Avatar Tools come into handy. Life is about change. We are always changing from one reality to the next reality. Sometimes, we do it willingly, and other times, we do it with lots of resistance. The tools help you to make this change effortlessly and experience a new reality.

what would you like to experience?

Winning is for Everyone

There is a belief that is so strong inside of me that I cannot shake it. I simply don't want to fight or hurt anyone. Or at least, it is something I do not care to do directly (and really, I don't even want to do it indirectly).

Today, I am trying to focus on how I can connect to others in loving light. Sometimes, I become defensive and it really hurts me. I know the pain is mine, but I am ready to just dish it out and hurt the person. To give them a signal of 'do not mess with me'. I do realize this is a protection mode. I don't feel safe. I don't believe I can handle myself in a composed manner. I have taken what the other person is saying personally and I want it be known that they have hurt me and let them know that I put up my "KEEP AWAY" sign on.

So, why is it that I need this sign? Well, I don't know how to handle myself around this attack. I am ill equipped to handle these attacks. Maybe because I cannot even see that it is coming before it is too late. If the person has gone as far as they have to the point that I have to be defensive, then, true, I am unaware.

So, my first instinct is to protect, defend, and attack. I full well know, that this usually results in a counter attack and the blows get bigger and bigger. I notice that I am really too busy defending and attacking rather than resolving the issue for all parties concerned. In my defense of my position, I have failed to see the needs and pain of the other person.

I like to see myself as a problem solver. I truly failed to realize that this magnifies the problem and I am in this game to win. When I come to my wit's end, I get some advice and support. I have found who you go to for support really makes a big difference in the outcomes that become possible. Speaking with someone who sympathizes with the problem escalates my ill feelings and prepares me for an attack. Speaking with someone who has an interest for the betterment of both parties usually brings a win-win outcome. This helps me in the long run to keep my self-respect and gain the respect of all involved. Here is where everyone comes out winning.

When you are fighting for or against someone or something, I have found that experiencing the discomfort is well worth it when you have a goal of everyone winning.